Monday

slave micromanagement

In BDSM terms, micromanagement can be defined as "atten[tion] to minor details in slave management: control [of] a a slave or her situation by paying extreme attention to minor details".[5]
The general notion of micromanagement can be extended to a Master/slave context where the Master takes a bully approach, in the level of control and influence over the slave he is training.. Often, this excessive obsession with the most minute of details causes the slave to relinquish all control of her choice decisions  to focus and trust her Master with all of her choice decisions.

Rather than giving general instructions on smaller tasks and then devoting his time to
supervising larger concerns, the Master monitors and assesses every step of a protocol and process and avoids delegation of even the minute of all decisions to the slave.
Masters practicing Micromanagement are usually irritated when a slave makes a decisions without the expertise of the Master or consulting the Master, even if the decisions are totally within the slave's boundary.


2 comments:

  1. Very nice I would like to reblog this.

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  2. I had never thought about a micromanaged relationship until I met my current slave. That was some 6 years ago. It was her who brought the subject up about micromanagement , at that time I had never considered such a relationship. Speaking with other Doms I knew about the subject I was told it was to much work to leave her alone.

    The truth is it is not really that much work , the first 90 days giving both time to make any adjustments.

    This also falls under Behavior Modification , changing someones way of thinking , how they act , talk , walk and even dress.

    As with anything it takes time and there will be mistakes , you talk about the mistakes and move on.

    Over a period of 90 days you will see the changes in the slaves Behavior but more than likely the slave will not notice any changes. You are changing habits and the key is the master being consistent.


    Micromanagement can be good and bad , bad if the relationship is going to be short term because the slave becomes dependent , the short term happens when the master has no intentions of having a long term relationship.

    I have been with my slave for 6 years and married for 5 this June and life is good. I control every aspect of her life with the exception of work but still she checks in every half hour on the dot.

    It kinda reminds me of the movie the Stepford wives , only the slave is willing.

    Vile

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