Thursday

Building Obedience in a slave.

I am accepting two more online or rt training Applications for 2014. two less than last year.  Master Gunter. I am not accepting any more orders for my custom made remote training collars unless it is fitted inhouse.
Obedience is a form of social conditioning and influence where an slave acts in response to a direct order from her Master, who is usually her authority figure. It is assumed that without such an order the slave would not have acted in this way.

Obedience implies compliance with the direction or command given to the slave by her Master. For a slave to be considered obedient rather than simply trained in obedience, she must respond reliably each time the command is given, by her Master. A slave can go through Obedience training and not be totally obedient requiring additional drastic training technics. If a slave is referred to as being Obedience Trained she should comply immediately with every command her Master gives her. In the strictest sense an Obedience trained slave is an obedient slave.
Training a slave in obedience can be an ongoing and lengthy process depending on the slave and her Master, the methods used, and the skill and understanding of both the Master and the slave. The level of obedience the Master wishes to achieve with the slave is also a major factor in the time involved, as is the commitment to training by the Master.
                                                                                                 pic with permission from Masteroflaura@gmail.com


Obedience training is often a prerequisite for or component of other training such as anal training, bi-sexual training, cock sucking training, pussy eating training etc.
The actual training of the slave can be done by anyone, not just her Master or her owner. Typically the Master who is training the slave participates and trains the slave, as He will be the one who will be giving the commands. The relationship and trust between the slave and her Master are important for success.
Basic obedience training is typically a short course ranging from six to ten weeks, where it is demonstrated to the Master how to communicate with and train the slave into deeper slavery in a few simple commands. With most methods the slave is trained one group of commands at a time. Though there may or may not be a specific word attached to it, slave positions is often the first training required prior to learning other comands such as walking properly on a leash, or leash control, cock worship, gorean techniques are often some of the training required prior to learning other more indebt commands.

Commands
The specific command word is not important, but consistency in usage is. There are certain commands that are accepted as standard and commonly used. 
When under training or in slave or service mode, the slave is often naked when at home. If anything is worn, she is usually in a collar, leash or lead, and perhaps a tail if she is also trained as a puppy/kitty.

Inspection Position
 In inspection position one such as she would normally be stripped, and standing with her feet spread, and her hands clasped either behind the back of her neck, or behind her head. In this way the breasts are lifted nicely, and, given the position
of the hands, one has no interference to one’s vision, and, similarly, one may, perhaps walking about her, test her for firmness, and for vitality, and such things. ”
[Swordsmen of Gor, p16] 


obedientlaura in inspection position. Permission to post obtained from Masterofobedientlaura@gmail.com
 

Nadu Position:
The first and most used of all Gorean slave positions, and also one of the first ones a slave learns.  Nadu is the Gorean word for "kneel".  In this position the slave kneels,  sits upon her heels with her back and shoulders straight, chest out, belly in and her head up, though her eyes are downcast.  Thighs are widely spread, hands resting upon thighs, palms upward.


Tower Slave Position:
       This position is another variation of nadu in which the slave kneels the same way but her palms down and her knees modestly together.  This position is typically reserved for underage or White Silk slaves, or those slaves who do not serve their Master/Mistress in a sexual way.

       Also known as Belly Position.  Bara is the Gorean word for "belly" and slave is expected to respond to either command in the same fashion.  In this position the slave falls to her stomach, face down to the floor and turned to the left, crosses her wrists behind her back and similarly crosses her ankles.  legs are straight in preparation for binding.

I would later become extremely familiar with such positions, but they were, at the time, quite new to me, and somewhat frightening. What most frightened me about them was the way they made me feel. It was not merely that, in them, I found profoundly stirred. In them, helplessly, vulnerably, I also sensed a personal rightness. I knew that in some sense I belonged in them. This was in contradiction to my entire upbringing, background, education and conditioning. Could such things have been wrong? Witness of Gor, page 23

Belly: or Ass position
The slave moves to her belly, hands palms down near the sides of her head, forehead to the ground and waits for further orders

Crawl: 
The slave gets down on all fours, palms to elbows flat against the floor, bottom in the air, forehead close but not quite touching the ground and crawls to within inches of the Master's feet.

Capture:

The slave lays down upon her back, bending her knees to place her feet flat against the ground, hands at her side and remains motionless



Sula:  or Pussy Position
       Also known as Prone Position.  The slave lays upon her back, her hands at her sides, palms upward, legs widely spread to await her Master's pleasure.

Sula-Ki:
       Also known as Alternative Sula.   This position is almost identical to Sula position but she slowly lifts her hips off the floor, as if beckoning the Master with her body encouraging her sexual use.


Lesha:
       Also known as Binding Position.   The Gorean word Lesha means "leash".  In this position, the slave remains standing or kneeling, depending upon the current position she is in.  She turns and puts her back to the Master, back and shoulders straight, wrists extened behind her, side by side in a position to be locked into chained slave bracelets, her chin up, her head turned to the left so a leash may be attached to the collar.


Bracelets:
       Also known as Chaining Position.   In this position the slave stands gracefully before the master, with her hips slightly turned to one side, her back and shoulders erect, her wrists crossed behind her and her head turned to the left, in anticipation of having slave bracelts attached to her wrists.


Ko-Lar:
Also known as Collaring Position or the Position of female Submission.  the slave kneels at the Master's feet and leans her body back, sitting upon her heels, her arms extended upward, crossed at the wrists, her head beneath them and lowered in supplication.


Hair Position:
       The slave stands, her feet flat on the floor, and bows gracefully at the waist, just so her hair might fall forward for display, or to be shorn, seized, or used for any purpose the Master desires.


Whipping Position:
       In this position, the slave first assumes the nadu position, though her arms are crossed in front of her.  She then leans forward and places her head to the floor, first sweeping her hair forward and over her shoulders in order to have her back fully exposed to the whip.
 


Obedience Position:
       The slave goes to the floor, alying upon her stomach, face down before the Master.  She turns her head and places her cheek against the Master's feet, kissing them lightly in a gesture of love and submission.

       Also known as "assuming the modality of the she-quadruped".  In this position, the slave falls to hands and knees, her head down on the floor, her hindquarters upthrusted for the viewing pleasure of the Master.  "Serving in the modality of the she-quadruped" is an instruction whereby the slave performs her regular duties upon hands and knees, withought the benefit of the use of her hands.  In this mode she may not rise to her feet and may only use her mouth and teeth to grasp and maniulate objects.


Leading Position:
       The slave stands and moves behind the master, bending at the waist.  She places her hands behind her and puts the side of her head to the Master's hip, that he might lead her easily by the hair or collar while walking.


Table Position: goes to all fours, her back straight, her legs parted, hands perpendicular to her body, palms flat upon floor, her hair pulled off over the left shoulder. (the slave may now be used as a table or foot rest) 



Slaver's kiss Position: to the floor on all fours ...her head lowered to the ground ...buttocks high in the air ...thighs widely spread ...her slave's heat exposed 
In order to obey (Master's) authority, the obeying person (slave) has to be programmed to accept that it is legitimate (i.e. rightful, legal) for the command to be made of them.  

Obedience occurs when a fully trained slave is issued a command to do something (authority), whereas conformity happens through social pressure (the norms of the majority). Obedience involves a hierarchy of power / status. Therefore, the Master giving the order has a higher status than the slave receiving the order.

Real Life Example of Obedience (sic)

Adolf Eichmann was executed in 1962 for his part in organizing the Holocaust, in which six million Jewish people, as well as gypsies, communists and trade unionists were transported to death camps and murdered in Nazi Germany and surrounding countries under Nazi control.
Eichmann was a logistical genius whose part in the Holocaust was the planning of the efficient collection, transportation and extermination of those to be killed.  At his trial in 1961, Eichmann expressed surprise at being hated by Jewish people, saying that he had merely obeyed orders, and surely obeying orders could only be a good thing. In his jail diary Eichmann wrote 'The orders were, for me, the highest thing in my life and I had to obey them without question' (extract quoted in The Guardian, 12 August, 1999, p. 13).
Eichmann was declared sane by six psychiatrists, he had a normal family life and observers at his trial described him as very average.  Given that there appears to be nothing particularly unusual about Eichmann, we must face the uncomfortable possibility that his behavior was the product of the social situation in which he found himself, and that under the right circumstances we may all be capable of monstrous acts.
Following the Second World War - and in particular the Holocaust - psychologists set out to investigate the phenomenon of human obedience. Early attempts to explain the Holocaust had focused on the idea that there was something distinctive about German culture that had allowed the Holocaust to take place.
Stanley Milgram set out to test the research question 'are Germans different?', but he quickly found that we are all surprisingly obedient to people in authority. In one of the most famous series of experiments in psychology Milgram (1963-74) demonstrated that most participants would give a helpless victim fatal electric shocks when ordered to. Milgram later ran a number of variations to the basic study, to find out more about the particular factors which might influence obedience.

slave mira's obedience essay ( sent in by slave mira)

I am a submissive woman ( sent in by leashedlaura)

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Submission is a gift given, not taken. Domination is mastering oneself first, before all others. And trust is what binds each together. These are the most important things that I have learned in the 10 years I have been in the lifestyle and I'm interested in talking to slaves and subs who are curious. remember slavery is illegal. Only consentual BDSM erotic play is legal between consenting adults.
Milton once said that the mind is it own place and in itself, can make a heaven of hell and hell of heaven. This describes the type of play I enjoy the most. I learn your desires and fears and find ways of bring those emotions to the surface and experience them using any methods as required.
Loyalty, Honesty, Discipline, Creativity, Humility, Intensity, Curiosity, Manners, Courage, Obedience, Humour, Intelligence, Endurance, Flexibility, Patience, Gratitude, Spontaneity, Faith and Commitment - this is mostly who I am and mostly what I am looking for in a slave. Pick one of these and explain what you can and will be and how you will change for your Master. Master Gunter:trainherwell@gmail.com







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28 comments:

  1. How would you keep a slave obedient when she is away from her Master for 4 days in a week? What are your thoughts on such Master Gunter?

    slave kulula

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    1. slave kukula

      As a Master another perspective is what I offer. When I am away from my slaves daily, they provide me with a morning note via text. A morning attire report detailing everything they are wearing, down to the level of nail polish and perfume that day. Nothing is omitted. this is also accompanied by a detail planned schedule of the day. All before work or chores. Then by the end of the day I receive a detailed events of the day and during the day any changes noted to attire such as work out etc, and then a detailed consumption report of all food consumed.

      I find this interaction is a good way to ensure she is focused and this provides an account of each day so I can ask questions throughout the week or during our time together so she understands I am paying attention.

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  2. slave kulula

    Every slave should keep be kept on a strict daily must write journal diet. No fail. Most Masters require this. Atleast the ones who know how to train their slaves well.
    A web log is such a journal in public and must be encouraged as well. Just make her write what happened that day, what she has felt, what her thoughts are about slavery, and how that affected her. What she thinks of her Master. What she wants her Master to do to her. What she wants to do herself, etc.
    Many of Us must learn to "blog". I still do not have it down!
    Does the Master you serve have a journaling time set aside, for you? Does He expect a certain amount of "work" at the end of the week?
    Have you tried recording yourself, then uploading an "audio journal", or making transcriptions? I expect I need to do the audio recordings, Myself.

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  3. I shall kneel, because it is my choice to kneel before him. He owns all of me and as I kneel I think of this ownership. My heart races initially and then it slows as a sense of peace I rarely find steals over me. Fleetingly I will wonder what limits he will push today. Will the pain be physical or much deeper than mere floggings? The pain of relinquishing control of not just my body, but my mind...and my very being. The frisson of danger that makes you tingle at the thought of harsh, violent sex. The little voice that says "maybe today we'll fly"

    And overriding all...the desire to please him. To bring him pleasure in whatever manner he may choose. An eagerness to touch and taste. To hear him make those little sounds of pleasure.

    Yes, the sweet anticipation of kneeling before my Master. My submission there for him to see.

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  4. will you kneel before me and give me pleasure

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  5. http://trainherwell.blogspot.com/2008/04/slave-application.html? How can I send this form to you Master?

    slave bella

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  6. I will pray for you freedom in the name Of Jesus. That you will no longer live in fear & torment. There is true peace, love, joy & happiness if you just trust and believe in Jesus Christ & He shall set your mind, body & soul free forever. Jesus loves you more than anyone else. He died for you & wants to be your one true Lord and Master. Beleive in Christ & repent for your sins & be saved from hell. Come to Jesus & He will never leave you or forsake you. Jesus loves you, never forget that!

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    1. you are ignorant. your happiness is not every ones happiness. You love Jesus.. she loves her master. get on with your life. you're not saving anyone from anything

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  7. I have not entered into this lightly. I have for as long as i can remember wanted to have a man be in control. Finally after years of searching i have now found a good master who will train me. Im response to the person who talks about Jesus etc. This is NOT something I've been made to do- this has been MY choice to go down the path that i an taking. At last i am in peace with myself and my master

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    1. To the Jesus person...Any decent Dominant Would train his or her submissive with the following obligations:
      In order of Rank, the Submissives obligations are to her:
      1. God (if they so believe)
      2. Biological family
      3. Education
      4.Career/Professional goals
      5 Dominant
      6.Household
      7.BDSM Community
      8.Extracurricular Activities

      There is room for everybody so there is no need to choose, between your Dom and God a good Dom would support and encourage.

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  10. I am all but 16 years of age, and for as long as i can remember i have wanted a man to control me, my life, my choices. It's difficult for me to listen and do everything i am told to do, because of my wild girl mentality. I want this to become my life, i want my master to know i am faithful to him and my loyalty and willingfulness to be a submissive makes me happy knowing i can please him. This lifestyle is a choice, no one is forcing you to do it. If not willing, then it is illegal. It's just a lifestyle.

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    1. You're willful. For some people that is normal. Maybe your Master can't handle you or maybe it's a part of a greater plan. Trust is the key here. Do you trust your Master?

      If you do, then like I said this may be part of a greater plan. There is no cut and dry path. This blog and others simply offer you what they know to be a truth. Not the lone absolute truth.

      If you do not trust your Master then maybe it's time to find another. But remember finding another Master is more than just answering an ad. Or you'll get stuck with 'Blow Job Boy' up above.

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    2. I posted this for the wrong person, my mistake.

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  11. My slave us disobedient how do I fix that? She complains and never finishes a blow job and talks back.

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    1. I'm sorry Sir, but as an actual (well at least mentally and in the future practically ) sub, i have to say that:
      1) You're an inexperienced Dom and have to harden up (sorry but it's the truth) and 2) Spank her. And not just playful slaps so she'll think she's supposed to take pleasure from that. No. Powerful, full on slaps so that tears'll run down her cheeks. But specify the exact number and why you do this at the beginning ( and don't go overboard with the slaps - so you don't break her) after what take her in your arms till she calms down (cause she'll continue on crying) and caress her. Doesn't matter where: on the forehead, her hair, massage her sore cheeks, in a word express your true feelings to her (or if you love her tell her so) so she'll feel safe with you (and then it would be better if you just put her to sleep next to you). With these actions you'll show her who's really in charge of this relationship. And remember: this is not about you, this is about her true submissivity and her respect for her Dom. At least this is the reaction I would have wanted my Master to have in case I disobeyed.

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  12. I am 16 years old. I have always veen raised I'm a male dominated home and have always been raised to think that men are my master. So when I do not have anyone to give me orders I am lost and I miss it. Yet when my master does control me I fight it so much. I really do jot understand what is going on. Does anyone have advice?

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    1. I think what you need is new master, a master that gives you task to do ,even if he is not physically available . If you want i can be your master contact me on meesterzoekslavin@gmail.com

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    2. You're willful. For some people that is normal. Maybe your Master can't handle you or maybe it's a part of a greater plan. Trust is the key here. Do you trust your Master?

      If you do, then like I said this may be part of a greater plan. There is no cut and dry path. This blog and others simply offer you what they know to be a truth. Not the lone absolute truth.

      If you do not trust your Master then maybe it's time to find another. But remember finding another Master is more than just answering an ad. Or you'll get stuck with 'Blow Job Boy' up above.

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    3. Definitely can't control her. Honey, it's not your fault. Just get a new master, one that takes your needs into account. Good luck.

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  13. Where can I get info on your "custom made remote training collars"?

    Thank you,
    cassady

    cassadyandjack.blogspot.com

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  14. Toward 16 year old, what i think you need is new master ,if you want this I can be your master.. IF you would like know more send me
    Mail on meesterzoekslavin@gmail.com

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  15. If you need guidance you can contact me slavegirltraining@hotmail.com

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  16. can some show me slave will know to kneel...Am slave Pat

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  17. can any 1 train my wife?

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  18. I like masters, Mew! masters take good care of meow!! :3 I'm Well behave kitten! & will follow master's order to the letter mew!!! Meow asking questions to other masters out there: What do think about kittens wasting there time playing & grooming themselves?

    (I don't like grooming)

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